Weigh up a decision
Lays out the pros, cons and risks of a choice you’re stuck on.
Help me think through a decision. I’m choosing between [the options]. What matters most to me: [your priorities]. My situation: [anything relevant, such as time, money or who’s affected]. For each option, give me the pros, the cons and the biggest risk, in a table. Then ask me three questions that would help me decide. Be kind but honest. Don’t make the decision for me, and don’t assume anything about my situation that I haven’t told you.
Tips and an example: Weigh up a decision
Tips for a better answer
- Answer its questions honestly, then ask it to sum up what your answers suggest.
- For decisions about money, the law or your health, use this to get your thoughts in order, then talk to a qualified adviser.
An example, filled in
Help me think through a decision. I’m choosing between staying in my job or taking a new one with a longer commute and £3,000 more a year. What matters most to me: time with my children, learning new skills, a steady income. My situation: the new job is 50 minutes each way by train; my current job is a 15-minute walk. For each option, give me the pros, the cons and the biggest risk, in a table. Then ask me three questions that would help me decide. Be kind but honest. Don’t make the decision for me, and don’t assume anything about my situation that I haven’t told you.